OK…I want this blog to be as accessible and free from jargon and theory as reasonably possible. However, I do not want to sanitise it or patronise readers. So, before I say what I planned to talk about, I am going to briefly explain the Oedipus Complex:
I guess most people will have heard of it and most will know it is something to do with Freud. Some may have an idea that it is something to do with young boys wanting to have sex with their mum. (Some of you will know exactly what the Oedipus Complex is and may well understand it better than me. This section isn’t for you – feel free to scroll down.)
I went into the home just for a paperwork day today. Greeted with lots of: “what you doing here?” from the kids, and “when you going home?” They don’t like it when you’re not there to be with them. Still, their rudeness wound me up slightly today. That and some of my colleagues having their heads up their backsides, which meant every time I left the office I found unsupervised children doing things they shouldn’t.
So, last night myself and a colleague restrained Mo in a variety of different holds for nearly two hours. Mo kept hurting us – biting, spitting, head butting, punching and on two separate occasions kicked my colleague, Jane, in the crotch. Sometimes I held him on my own. This is considered poor practice but we had other children to look after who are all capable of kicking off if they feel ignored. The child in question wanted to be held as his behaviour, and what he said, indicated.
At the end of every half-term the kids at the school, which is run by the kids home I work for, do a presentation on what they have been doing in school.
The whole community (as in care staff, office staff, management and social workers who have time) come to watch.
It’s excruciating, awkward, delightful, endearing and hopeful in equal measure…
OK…let me stick my oar into the debate about government proposals to privatise aspects of child protection work.
The Government argument that child protection could be improved if some parts of it were farmed out to organisations with specialist expertise does not hold up to even the most cursory close reasoning. Why? Because all current child protection practitioners either work for local authorities or the police. All of them. That is because no aspects of child protection are currently allowed to be managed by the private sector.